An influencer I follow mentioned writing a letter to our future self, for the next new year. She suggested using the GROW template:
Gratitude and reflection
Realizations and lessons learned
Outlook and aspirations
Wishes and dreams
I’m sharing mine to look back at. I encourage you to write a letter to yourself as well.
2023 was a tough year, but a great one. I wrote an entire novel and half of another one. I got a publisher and dumped them when I stood up for myself and values. I tried new things like Youtubing and different kinds of creative outlets like editing and vtubing. I structured a consistent schedule for myself to put time into things I love like writing and reading. I read 26 books!
I learned to speak up for myself in a relationship and not to tolerate bullshit. I am slowly but surely breaking the dependency on others in friendships and relationships. I don’t need others to feel love. And they are not responsible for my feelings. And when things get tough, I didn’t lean too hard on self-destruction this time. That’s a win for me. I did start 2023 going into Keto though, which messed up my metabolism. I lost weight and gained it all and more back. It took until almost the end of the year to get my act together and put in the work to get healthy the right way. Mind, body & soul.
In 2024, I will stick to my health plan. Yes, I call it a health plan and not a weight loss plan. I am more than a number on the scale. And my happiness is more than that number, too. In 2023, I really lacked spirituality. In 2022, I wrote Glamour Magick for the Soul. I spent 2023 querying and got discouraged when a publisher I signed with bullied me into believing I was shit. This is a book about confidence and finding the magick within yourself, and I lost mine. In 2024, I take a lesson from my own book. I will self-publish it before my birthday this year and do it my way. I will help others this year without detriment to my own health. I’m going to publish at least Glamour Magick for the Soul this year, get The Blurry Man edited, and finish writing Halcyon Heights. This year I am thirty, flirty, and thriving. (Note: I must re-watch that movie this year.)
Rather than say “I wish” or “My dreams are”, I will manifest my aspirations as if they have already happened. I am law of attractioning my dreams and ripping them out of my mind and into reality. I look in the mirror and love the face looking back at me. People care about the words I put to paper. I am successful and people around me notice that I manifest confidence.